FATE! Now this is my opinion: You can't choose who you fall in love with. It just happens. You don't just walk up to a random person and say, "I'd like to fall in love with you today." It doesn't work like that. However, you could choose to not listen to Fate, that's up to you. And this doesn't need to be this huge ordeal, this is just my opinion.
Banana Bread or Banana Cream Pie?